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I have never really been a huge drinker of alcohol, I probably drank more illegally when I was underage than I do now that it is all completely legal. Except for this one point about a year and a half ago when I was using alcohol as a mean of pretending that I was fine, to convince myself and the people around me that all was well and good in my world- when in fact, it was not.
I wasn’t a borderline alcoholic or anything like that, but I was drinking what I would consider being an excessive amount for myself. I remember one week being out on a Thursday night, Friday night, all day Saturday, Sunday afternoon and then the Sunday night and then spending all day Monday feeling like death warmed up. That is probably the only time I have ever drunk that much, honestly, if I couldn’t even think about doing that now, I can barely do two nights out in a row. Currently, my limit is one night out every two weeks and even then I struggle to drink more than two or three drinks.
In my efforts to not drink as much anymore, and to not use alcohol as a way of avoiding dealing with my issues, I have learnt a few different things that come from being sober and thought I would share them with you.
- · You don’t have to drink to have fun, but it does kind of help.
· Your friends can really be arseholes when alcohol is involved.
You don’t notice it when you are drinking too, probably because you are also being an arsehole. While I have been the sober one I have watched the normally quiet and polite people become outgoing and loud and the sober dickheads turn into drunken bigger dickheads. Alcohol comes with an ego for a lot of people and gee whiz it shows- it is like one alcoholic beverage and the egotistical meter goes up and up.
You don’t notice it when you are drinking too, probably because you are also being an arsehole. While I have been the sober one I have watched the normally quiet and polite people become outgoing and loud and the sober dickheads turn into drunken bigger dickheads. Alcohol comes with an ego for a lot of people and gee whiz it shows- it is like one alcoholic beverage and the egotistical meter goes up and up.
- · People who drink have a hard time accepting those who don’t.
- · You come home with about the same amount of money as you walked in the door with- and without a pocket full of coins.
- · You get a better nights sleep.
1. You get over being social and out of the house a lot quicker than you would with the influence of alcohol. I will be ready to go home approximately ten minutes after I get there, meaning I give up and go home a lot quicker too.
2. You don’t lay down and instantly get head spins. The head spins fall into the category of “God I don’t miss that at all.”
- · It’s not necessary to have a “responsible friend” in every friend group, but it is a good idea.
- · You don’t wake up the next morning bloated and with a face full of last nights makeup.
- · You don’t wake up with the morning after regret.
In saying all this I haven’t stopped drinking entirely, I mean I don’t drink often but if it were a special occasion or such it isn’t like I would say no to a cocktail. I just don’t drink to the hangover extent anymore and I 100% couldn’t do a weekend bender at all.
Tell me- are you a drinker? Or do you prefer to stay sober? Even mildly sober? Have you learnt anything from being a non-drinker watching drinkers?
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